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Pongámonos en esta situación, kafkiana cuando menos, un dia sales de casa y uno de tus mejores amigos te presenta a una persona. Te presenta a ti mismo.

-Mira este es JL, un buen amigo....

Por supuesto, os vais a tomar un cafe los tres. En una charla amigable empiezan a salir los primeros chascarrillos. Y pensáis...

-" Ja, que majete este tío. Que graciosillo. No se si le empaparía la cara a sopapos."

Esta es una situacion extrema, donde se evidencia un trastorno de personalidad severo (Que espero no sea mi caso). Sin embargo ¿os habéis planteado la posibilidad de que no os caigáis bien?

Parece una pregunta de respuesta obvia. Cualquier persona con un mínimo de autoestima se diria: "Pues claro que me caigo bien. Si soy mas majo que para que." Pero esta no es la pregunta que te he hecho. No te he preguntado ¿Como te comportas con los demas para sentirte bien? No. Te he preguntado si te caerías bien? Si aquellos chistes que siempre haces te gustarian cada vez que los oyes. Si esas costumbres que tienes las soportarais a diario de otra persona. Si el aspecto que das es realmente el que piensas que tienes. Es una cuestión diferente.

Ahora la pregunta ya no es obvia, y precisa de un duro examen de conciencia personal. En el que plantearse que hábitos habría de cambiar. De todas formas, no debemos ser dramáticos. Nadie es ideal, siquiera consigo mismo, y hay que aceptarse, también con tus propias limitaciones.

Hace ya un tiempo, me plantee esta cuestion la conclusion a la que llegue es, que problablemente no me cayera bien. No soporto muy bien a los tipos como yo. Es curioso. Me desagradan ciertos aires autosuficiencia, incluso cierta benevolencia con los que me comporto de vez en cuando. Hace ya mucho tiempo que me comporto asi. No es algo de ayer.

Tampoco soporto las personas que ante cualquier problema te dicen: "No te preocupes, esta todo bien" Como quitandole importancia a lo que esta pasando. Esa es una mala costumbre que tengo.

Ahora hago inflexión. Demostrado queda que no soy autosuficiente, por tanto intentare ser mas sincero con ello. Y si tenéis algún problema, decirlo, os ayudare a resolverlo, no os dire que esta resuelto.

Con esto no digo que me caiga genial, pero por algun sitio tengo que empezar. Si quereis me podeis decir por donde habéis empezado (o acabado).

Bueno. Despues de las clases de psicologia barata que me he marcado. Me voy a permitir el lujo de recomendaros una canción "Somewhere over the Rainbow" versión de Isreal Kamamawiwo'ole. Una exquisitez sacada de la banda sonora de "Conoces a Joe Black".

He encontrado la forma (Gracias al punky) de que podais escucharla, sin tener que buscarla. Espero que la disfruteis.



Saludos, y gracias a todos los que habeis leido y comentado las entradas anteriores.

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